Tip: Did you ever wonder where our Wedding Traditions came from? Some are quite interesting and are based on interpretation from different areas.

Here are some that you may find interesting:

BRIDESMAIDS were friends or "witnesses" of the bride. In the past, there was always concern of evil spirits so these friends dressed up to confuse the evil spirits. This in turn protected the bride.

THE VEIL was originally worn as a symbol of youth and virginity. It was meant to shield the bride from evil spirits.

THE GARTER – It was said that the bride and everything she wore or carried was thought to be good luck. Wedding guests wanting to share her good fortune would rip off bits of her gown. Instead of ripping her gown, they eventually fashioned a garter that could be thrown to the crowd, therefore preserving her dress.

THE RING is used to seal the wedding contract. This dates back to thousands of centuries ago. In some cultures, a written contract in sufficient. Throughout the ages the exchange of rings has not been mandatory to seal a marriage contract. Rings were fashioned from rushes and other grasses woven and tied around fingers. However, metals and gems were eventually discovered more durable. Wearing a wedding ring on the third finger of the left hand dates back to the ancient Egyptians. The pharaohs believed that the vein in that finger ran directly to the heart. In addition, the circular shape represents never-ending love. Diamonds were originally only worn by the extremely wealthy because of their initial rarity. Since they have discovered a wealthy supply of diamonds, today, it is the gem of choice.

THE KISS was a legal bond that sealed ancient Roman contracts, including marriage. It was also believed that as a couple kissed, part of their souls mingled and remained with their lover when they exchanged breath.

THE CAKE comes from the early Romans when they broke a wheat bun—a symbol of fertility—over the bride's head. The crumbs were thought to be good luck. Later, a French baker frosted a stack of buns—creating the first wedding cake.

RICE is used at the end of today's ceremonies. In France, they throw wheat. In Morocco, it's raisins, and in Iraq, it's chocolate. All are symbols of fertility and bounty.

THE HONEYMOON dates back centuries; newlyweds spent a "month of sweetness" alone together enjoying mead—a fermented honey drink. Honey is an ancient symbol of life, health and fertility.

What is so great about today's standards is that we accept all cultures and bring in all traditions. It is a joining of families and love.

Hope you are enjoying all you do. The day actually comes and goes so quickly. So enjoy your planning—and, of course,
Have Fun and Stay Organized!!

Fondly,
Marlene

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