Tip: Well, I am sure I really got you going with the Traditional "Who Pays for What". BUT, we are in a new world in the sense that weddings are very expensive compared to many years ago. Now, if you want to have a nice wedding where friends and family attend and it is important to you, be willing to comprimise on these lists.

Now, the Bride and Groom are getting married at an older age an usually have established careers. If this is your situation, you too can be an equal participant.

The Groom's side need no longer to be the silent partner. They are very involved today and are in most cases very willing to do more.

If you can do it, divide all expenses 3 ways--Bride's Parents, Groom's Parents, Bride & Groom.

Another suggestion might be that each set of parents pay for certain things: Band/Music, all Flowers and Videography for the Groom's Family; Wedding Stationery, etc, Wedding Consultant, and Transportation for the Bride and Groom; then the Bride's Family can pay the rest

Anyway to do it, plan ahead and discuss openly with your families what will be most comfortable for all of them.

We do not want anyone to be in debt for years to come for the Wedding. It should be a joyous and harmonious time for all with no stress about money.

As always, Have Fun and Stay Organized!

Fondly,
Marlene

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