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Marlene Holloway
Marlene Holloway,
Author, Wedding Expert


Second in a Series
The Bridal Party A to Z

Tip: Now that we have the Maid or Matron of Honor, it is the Best Man's turn.

The Best Man:

  • Plans a Bachelor Party for the groom or a joint party for the couple (this can be done with the help of the Maid of Honor)
  • Is responsible for organizing ushers' activities
  • Drives Groom to ceremony site and sees that he is properly dressed before the wedding
  • Arrives dressed at ceremony site 1 hour before the wedding for photographs
  • Brings marriage license to wedding
  • Pays the clergyperson, musicians and any other service providers the day of the wedding if there is no Wedding Consultant
  • Stands to the right of Groom and slightly behind him during the ceremony, facing the officiant (the opposite occurs in a Jewish Ceremony)
  • Holds the Bride's ring for the groom until needed by the Officiant
  • Escorts Maid of Honor, to her left, immediately following Flower Girl/Ring Bearer or Bride/Groom during the recessional
  • Is a legal witness and witnesses the signing of the marriage certificate
  • Drives the newlyweds to reception if no hired driver
  • Sits to the right of Bride at the head table
  • Keeps Groom on schedule
  • Offers first toast at reception
  • Dances with Maid of Honor during the bridal party dance
  • Works with Groomsmen and Ushers in removing gifts brought to the reception site and bringing them to a designated location for the newlyweds
  • Drives couple to airport or honeymoon suite
  • Oversees return of tuxedo rentals for groom and ushers, on time and in good condition
  • He pays for his wedding day attire
  • He is also available for fittings and alterations and makes sure the Groomsmen/Ushers are, too
  • He also pays for his own travel expenses, if necessary

As always, give thought to who would best suit this honor and the others can stand up with you as a Groomsman or Usher

Have Fun and Stay Organized!

Fondly,
Marlene

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