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Marlene Holloway
Marlene Holloway,
Author, Wedding Expert

Tip: A Disc Jockey can be the right thing for you instead of a Band. Some couples never consider a disc jockey, thinking a band is the only way to go. Traditionally the more popular choice, live music introduces an energy into your wedding reception that little can match. But live music has its limitations. Even the most versatile and talented band on earth could never provide the range of songs and performers that a disc jockey can. With a DJ at the helm, every one of your favorite songs is available to you instantly. And when you factor in the possibility of adding new titles or selections from your own collection, there is almost no recorded music that you can't have at your wedding celebration.

djThere is a misconception that hiring a disc jockey over a band is a decision based purely on budget. But there is a lot to be said for the variety of music you get with a DJ. And a great DJ can be a lot better than some bands.

Professional mobile disc jockeys can be dressed to blend in with the formality of your event and can be as involved or as unobtrusive as you like. They should also have a dedicated focus on playing the music you want to hear and on turning the celebratory dinner into a party.

The best way to find a disc jockey is through referrals. First, ask the disc jockey for credentials and references. Ask how long he/she has been in business. Ask about rates—if they are considerably lower than the industry norm, there may be a reason. If they are higher, ask for justification. Inquire about sound equipment. A professional disc jockey will bring professional, pure-digital equipment, not just an impressive home system. A disc jockey should also be equipped with a wireless microphone for announcements and toasts. Establish that the disc jockey has adequate back-ups—equipment failures, though rare, can occur and "the day the music dies" should not be your wedding day.

Your disc jockey will be a very visible part of your reception. A DJ's style will be revealed most notably during any of the master-of-ceremonies moments in your reception. He often acts as a kind of host, introducing the bride and groom, announcing the toasts, inviting the guests to come onto the dance floor, signaling the cake cutting.

cdA disc jockey will generally give you a list of his most requested tracks from which you can select songs. You should also feel free to add any favorites that may not be included in his library. You can either supply them yourself, or ask the DJ to purchase the CDs—he should be agreeable, assuming the quantity is modest.

Be clear with your disc jockey up front about any songs, or even genres of music, you don't want played, even if requested, so there are no surprises the day of your wedding.

Part of what you are hiring in a disc jockey is his talent for creating a mood, which means knowing what songs to play next to generate energy and positive flow throughout your reception.

Like all wedding professionals, great DJs are in demand. Book six months ahead of your wedding—more if you can. The contract with your disc jockey should be a detailed one, specifying all logistics of the reception—date, location, time (including set-up time; one hour prior to the start of the event is the norm), and projected length. It should stipulate price and overtime charges, with a guarantee the the disc jockey will not leave for another event if you need him to stay beyond the scheduled end of the reception. You'll also want it to detail the sound equipment and specify that backup equipment and personnel are available, and indicate that the disc jockey is covered by liability insurance; it could even spell out what the disc jockey is expected to wear—formal or semi-formal, your choice.

After you've agreed on the logistical details with your disc jockey, direct him, inform him—of your must-plays, must-nots, and the general direction in between—and then trust him. You will be rewarded with a memorable soundtrack for this most memorable day.

And above all have fun and Stay Organized!

Fondly,
Marlene

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